Love is unisex and misunderstood

Human nature is a funny thing, I mean we all want, desire, crave, need a few things in order to feel alive, good, happy, and joyful. One of those thing is "LOVE" we all desire someone to love us, to accept us, to need us, to want us, to appreciate  us, to understand us, to help us discover a personal needs we have yet to discover the true missing link.

I do know as females, most of us can't take another woman telling us what to do and how to do it, though we may need a little assistance in changing a few things about us we can't accept  her pointing the finger telling us to change this and that we become defensive and start saying well she must be jealous or hating on me, when in reality that far from the truth. Some people are brought into our lives to help us see what we fell to see about the man in the mirror.

When a man steps to the same female she's more opt to hear him out, she's more open to try to work on these things in effort to gain his LOVE and AFFECTION. This isn't the way it's designed to be, however it's the way it is. There are life long lessons we're suppose to learn, and be tested on in hopes we pass the test that comes after.  I do admit love is a funny thing it has many facets, and depths it can bring good feelings, and bring understanding, but on the flip side when emotions are out of control and the love isn't reciprocated the opposite can occur.

Whether we're aware of it or not, we live out our purpose daily. People come into our life to add color to us or to expose the dark places, the dark places are hidden deep within the core of us all. We try to hide them, because we don't want to see our self in a dull place, in a unhappy view. There's some aspect of ourselves lost in other people perception of us.

We all seem to care, I believe we care a little to much. We want to belong, we want to live in freedom of thought, actions and still be loved and accepted. It's our duty to understand with each connected formulated we leave a piece of ourselves planted in the hearts of those we connect with. It's like tiny seeds we leave behind. It's not our duty to stay and water them. It's not our duty to ensure the seeds grow, and or harvest. It's our duty to sow the very seed deep inside knowing the person life will change for the better eventually.

There's a catch to this of course, the person must be open to change, the person must be ready for change,

the person must not fight against the resistance, because there will be some resisting, let it happen at first it may not feel good like someone poking you, sticking you, their words, thoughts, and presence will try you and cause you to question your who you are/or who you thought you were. You may even become defensive and deny what's being revealed. Don't fight it, allow the seed to cultivate, allow the seed to take root. You will begin to see some of your actions, behaviors that are not in sync with where you're trying to go in life. Sometimes God sends people into your life to re-shape and help you get to the next phase, your next position in life. In order to get there and understand the lessons presented there you must be able to face who you are at the precise moment your in and realize who you are, who you always been and your level of understanding concerning personal change, spiritual revelation, and the many seasons of ones life.

It's amazing how one word, a deep thought, or spending time in deep conversation, and exchanging vibes can bring fulfillment to a person life.
We all crave unity, companionship, and intimacy. I'm not talking $exual intimacy, I'm talking about a connecting of one's soul to another. Sharing heart felt moments, vibes, thoughts. . What I'm talking about connecting of ones soul, when you connect with the "RIGHT" person for the season your in that person will bring so much into your life you will start to feel alive again. You'd notice before them your life was mundane and less colorful.

You long for another dialect, another lost moment  of blissful thoughts, a second more of rising to the highest of all heights, just another smile, giggle, and or vision of what could be  possible even for a moment, even if it's wishful thinking. In this moment I feel something I haven't  in a long time, in this moment I can smile and know everything is going to be OK, in this moment I dance around the possibility that love finally found me and I am not going to let it go, instead I'm going to embrace all the feelings, the mystery of the connection and live in it. The other party may not have an idea of what you're doing to them until much later. The seed is planted A new chapter begins.